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I guide people through conscious identity transformation - the kind that doesn’t just change how you think, but how you live, choose, and move through the world.
My work sits at the intersection of self-awareness, nervous system regulation, identity rewiring, and intentional action. I help people interrupt patterns that no longer serve them, reconnect with their internal authority, and build lives that actually feel aligned - not just impressive on the outside.
I don’t believe in bypassing, quick fixes, or motivational noise. I believe in grounded awareness, deep honesty, and sustainable change that comes from learning how to be with yourself differently.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about returning to who you already are without the conditioning.
A Little About Me
I didn’t arrive at this work from a straight line or a perfected version of myself.
Like many of the people I now work with, I was capable, driven, intelligent - and still felt misaligned. I knew how to perform, achieve, and push forward. I didn’t yet know how to slow down, listen inward, or recognize the subtle ways I was overriding myself in the name of responsibility, survival, or expectation.
My journey has been one of unlearning autopilot.
I’ve navigated major identity shifts - professionally, personally, emotionally - where the old ways of operating stopped working, but the next way hadn’t fully revealed itself yet. Those in-between seasons taught me what most people are never shown: how destabilizing change can feel when your internal systems haven’t caught up to your external life.
And how powerful it becomes when they do.
My Beginnings
For a long time, I did what many high-functioning people do - I kept going.
I adapted. I coped. I handled things.
But beneath that competence were patterns I hadn’t yet learned how to work with: self-abandonment, over-responsibility, emotional suppression, and an internal pressure to “figure it out” instead of actually feeling it.
The turning point wasn’t a breakdown - it was a realization.
I saw clearly that insight alone wasn’t enough.
Understanding my patterns didn’t automatically change them.
What changed everything was learning how to pause, notice, and stay present long enough to interrupt the reaction - long enough to choose something different.
That’s when the work became embodied.
Through years of conscious self-observation, nervous system awareness, emotional regulation, and intentional identity shifts, I began to experience change that wasn’t forced or performative.
I stopped trying to outgrow myself and started learning how to be with myself.
That process became the foundation of my work today.
I developed frameworks and practices not as abstract models, but as tools I actively use - because life doesn’t stop once you “know better.” Triggers still happen. Transitions still happen. Expansion still requires capacity.
I am still living the work I guide others through.
That’s intentional.
I don’t position myself as someone who has “arrived” and hands down answers.
I work alongside my clients - helping them:
Recognize the patterns running beneath their choices
Understand what state they’re operating from, not just what they’re doing
Learn how to regulate instead of react
Build trust with their own internal signals
Make aligned decisions without forcing or bypassing
This is not therapy, and it’s not motivational coaching.
It’s conscious identity work - for people who are ready to take responsibility for how they show up without pathologizing themselves in the process.